Vietnam, Part 2. Hanoi & The Oriental Jade

Both Jeff and I only experienced moments of brief twilight sleep during our long flight from Qatar to Hanoi, the capital city of Vietnam. I opened my eyes and pulled the shade up from the window to see the first streaks of dawn color the sky. Silently watching the light slowly increase. Below the plane, as far as the eye could see spread a sea of white clouds, so thick and fluffy, you felt for sure they would sustain your body weight as you played within their soft folds. I was reminded of my childhood days in Ohio, the heavy snowfalls of several feet that turned the town of Bay Village and the city of Berea into winter wonderlands.

My reminiscence was interrupted as the plane turned to the right, and gentle broke through the surface of clouds into a canyon of cloud formations, with deep inclines and high peaks. Above us spread a carpet of white; below the same, only gray scaled. The plane pressed downward, and Hanoi appeared, a gray blur, and I knew the forecast for rain was true. Scattered below us were individual clusters of homes nestled together in neighborhoods. They were surrounded and separated by farmland. The entire land was cast in a mist, brownish in hue with tones of green.

Unlike Britian and France, where the streets have designated areas for vehicles and bicycles, the streets of Vietnam flow in courteous chaos. There are no designated lanes, everyone drives beside each other, slow and fearless, but somehow this policy works. Later we learned that a 30-minute walk to a restaurant could be accessed in 10 minutes on a motorbike; the same distance taking 1 hour by taxi because of the traffic.

Early into our drive to our hotel, my allergies started flaring up, and I realized that, as I suspected, the film in the air was smog, or soot, some kind of pollution and it covered everything. We passed groves of banana and coconut trees. Every inch of usable ground serves as a garden. The homes, instead of spreading wide, are built with many ascending floors, with garden space on the roof and open areas for hanging laundry. They are sandwiched tightly in-between apartment buildings, and businesses.

There is an equal mix of dilapidated structures mixed with the new. We are driving through the old side of Hanoi, which to my eye looks poverty stricken. But during our time in Hanoi, we would come to see the city and its people differently.

We learned about their great pride and patriotism, their self-sufficient methods of providing for themselves (thus the gardens) and their strong desire to help Hanoi and Vietnam in general, continue to grow for the future. They are hardworking people, kind and eager to please.

Throughout our travels in Vietnam, I am struck by the impact Covid 19 continues to have on the population. They are still working their way back to a new normalcy. For many this has been an upward climb. One of the key factors to their economy is bringing back tourism! And throughout my limited travels, I have never seen people so eager to please.

The downtown city closed in on us unexpectedly and was unlike anything I have ever seen. You are struck with wonder watching the flurry of activity surrounding you at all angles. The streets are busy with heavy traffic, that miraculously flows with ease. Merchants are crammed next to each other yet marked as individuals. We pass spas, restaurants, clothing and other stores jam packed with merchandise. At one point we entered streets where all of the merchants sell Christmas decorations. The deeper into the city we travel, the buildings take on a new life, big, more recent structures. Many of them are beautifully decorated for Christmas.

I’m taken with the large variation of architecture around me, primarily the Asian influences, which to my eye are foreign and exotic. I watch passengers sitting sidesaddle on motorbikes, texting on their phones as they travel. They are relaxed; most likely grew up being transported on these vehicles. I’ve seen many parents with infants and small children in tow. And just as our long journey begins to fatigue Jeff and I, our taxi stops in front of the sweetest hotel, The Oriental Jade.

From the moment we stepped out of our taxi we were greeted by several men and women, all beautifully dressed, who scurred to rescue us from our luggage and help us into the hotel. All of them spoke excellent English. Walking into the Oriental Jade, I immediately felt the stress of our long journey begin to melt away. The men and women who work in this hotel treated us as if their sole purpose to was make us comfortable and they succeeded.

After Jeff checked us in, we settled in a pleasant area, where we were served cool, wet clothes to refresh our hands and brows, for the temperature outside was very humid and warm. Next, we were given a welcoming drink, which I believe was pineapple and orange juice blend.

They also gave us a handout that gave brief but appreciated details about the amenities in the hotel as well as advice on how to travel the streets of Hanoi safely.

Here are some of their helpful suggestions:
1.  When crossing the road: stay relaxed and self-confident, move slowly, paying attention to the drivers and never step backwards.
2.  How to ward off pushy vendors: don’t touch anything unless you want to buy it; avoid smiling or make eye contact with vendors; keep moving forward passing their store quickly
3.  How to bargain: start with 20% to 50% off of what the vendor first states, then negotiate for the best rate
4.  How to avoid street risks: do not walk alone; don’t wear valuable jewelry; keep your bags, backpacks, and all personal items in front of you. (Vy (our venue’s bride) also recommended that instead of a purse wear a bag that fastens over your shoulders with the zipper compartment carried in front. In addition, she told me to add a cover-all over that. Pickpockets are everywhere! You even need to take precautions when using your cell phone.

The woman who gave us our orientation, expresses the importance of having the hotel, not only book your dinner reservations, but to also assist you with finding a safe and honest taxi driver. Apparently, there are a great many drivers who make a substantial living on unsuspecting tourists who don’t know where they are.

Jeff had the front desk make reservations for us at a restaurant they recommend, and we retired to our room, to freshen up. Our room, like the rest of the hotel, was clean and comfortable. Even the instant coffee they supplied us with was delicious and quite honestly, we enjoyed it so much Jeff bought some to take home. The long hours of traveling had rapidly caught up with me and I slept for about 4 hours, while my nomadic husband checked out the stores close to our hotel.

Later that evening, Jeff and I stepped into the city. The sun had set yet the city flourished with new activity. Both sides of the street were absolutely jam packed with vendors. Every store is brilliantly lit and advertised with neon signs. As Jeff and I maneuvered our way along the sidewalks, walking “relaxed and self-confidently,” we quickly learned that the sidewalks are really parking areas for the motorbikes. They are also blocked by store vendors who most likely live above their store fronts and have expanded their living spaces to include the front area of their stores up to the street and occasionally small alleys between stores.

Families are eating dinner on small plastic tables and chairs. Other people use crates and boxes to sit on. You find yourself very cramped and end up walking along the curb of the street or into the street itself. There are also very large tree roots that have broken through the cement making walkways difficult. You are submerged in a flurry of activity, surrounded by colored lights, noise and smells, particularly the mixture of different foods cooking in the open air, along with the occasional smell of urine, which flashed me back to my younger days walking the streets of New York City with Jeff.

It took Jeff and I a little longer to find our restaurant, Duong’s, than we expected, but we wouldn’t have traded the experience of walking the streets to absorb the essence of Hanoi. After finding our name on the reservation list, the receptionist led us to our table and proceeded to go over our specific food allergies.

Unbeknown to us, the Oriental Jade had notified the restaurant of our specific dietary needs. This gratuity has never happened to us before! It was lovely going into a dining experience to discover that your hotel was watching out for you even when you left their doors. We enjoyed a lovely, several course meal, but instead of walking back to the hotel we had the restaurant call us a taxi.

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After a good night’s rest, Jeff and I ventured downstairs for breakfast. I have to say that the Oriental Jade’s breakfast spread was one of my favorite eating experiences in Vietnam. The buffet included multiple egg options, waffles and pancakes, sushi, exotic passion and dragon fruits along with melons, olives, nuts, yogurts, and much more. The coffee is worth mentioning too. It is served a bit differently than in the states. There is a large variety of different coffee’s too, such as egg and my personal favorite, coconut. The coffee itself is thick and dark, like an expresso. For those like me who enjoy their coffee sweet, sweeten condensed milk is served along with cream and sugar and even chocolate shavings.

After breakfast, Jeff and I left the Oriental Jade to join a one day/night cruise trip through Hanoi Bay, but we would return to spend one more night at The Oriental Jade.

To date, the Jade is one of the nicest hotels I’ve had the pleasure to stay with. It is five stars, luxury hotel, with affordable prices, and an amazing staff. My only regret is that I wasn’t able to stay longer and enjoy their pool and take advantage of the spa, which offers a good variety of treatments. Their customer care service is outstanding. When you are traveling so far away from home, you need to stay at a hotel that goes above and beyond with their service. Please consider staying at this jewel in Hanoi.

THE ORIENTAL JADE – Hotel & Spa
92-94 Hang Trong Str., Hoan Kiem Dist., Hanoi, Vietnam
www.theorientaljadehotel.com
sales@theorientaljadehotel.com

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VIETNAM – A Land Growing for the Future – Part 1. Qatar Airlines & the Lady from Iraq

View from an airplane window showing a wing and a vast sea of fluffy white clouds below against a backdrop of clear blue sky.

Tuesday night, on December 3, 2024, Jeff and I boarded an 11:00 flight on Qatar airlines, for a flight that would take 14.5 hours, from Dallas – Fort Worth (DFW) airport to the country, Qatar. From Qatar, we would board another plan for another 7-hour flight to our first destination Hanoi, the capital city of Vietnam. The purpose for this trip to Vietnam was to attend a traditional Vietnamese wedding for our dear family members, Johnny and Vy Cameron, in the city of Ho Chi Min (Saigon).

Not sure what to expect, I was pleasantly surprised to discover that the Qatar aircraft was very clean and extremely inviting, even though we were flying economy. The flight attendants, all of them beautiful women, wearing appealing outfits, with their hair fastened into uniformed buns at the nape of their necks, greeted us as we boarded the plane. We soon learned that their beauty included attentive and kind dispositions. However, from the moment we discovered our seats (three in a row) with an elderly woman (about my age) sitting in the middle seat clutching a large carry-on bag, trouble began to brew.

Jeff had booked our flight and seat assignment several months in advance. Jeff is more comfortable with aisle seats, so he is able to stretch out his long legs. My preference is the window, where I have a wall next to me to curl up to. As we took our seats, trying to settle our carry-ons for the flight, the woman began to raise a raucous. Animated, and standing with her bag held close to her chest, she loudly protested in Arabic against sitting in-between us. Then in English she insisted that one of us move so that we were sitting together. A troubled attendant patiently asked her to please settle down. The woman responded by calling, what I later learned was her son, on her cell phone. I could hear her son trying to settle her anxiety as she franticly asked him to intercede. They hung up. Moments later she called him again.

Growing more and more distressed, the lady insisted that the attendant find her another seat. To which, the attendant summoned the head attendant to explain to her that the plane was packed to the brim and no other seats were available. Again, the woman called her son.

The next issue arose when the head attendant insisted that she stow her large bag in the overhead storage compartment for takeoff. What happened next defined the word “conniption.”

She called her son.

The head attendant began to threaten to remove her from the plane. Their heated interaction continued for a several minutes, until an Arabic speaking man was found and come to her aid. He spoke calmly, and with kindness. Resigned, the lady agreed to let Jeff help her store her bag, and the plane prepared for takeoff.

The whole encounter ruffled both Jeff and my feathers. With such a long flight ahead of us we dreaded having to sit next to this woman. She was claiming both sides of the armrests next to her. I complained to Jeff when she briefly left for the restroom; Jeff empathized, he was experiencing the same emotions and evasion on her elbow into his side. When she returned, she struggled to retrieve a suitcase and the large bag from the overhead compartment. Jeff came to her rescue, placing the suitcase at her feet where it remained for the entire flight. The bag she held close to her chest. Once she was settled, a gentle tranquility fell upon the plane. The only sounds came from infants and toddlers and the humming sounds the plane’s engine made.

One of the nicest options Qatar airlines offers for parents is an infant bassinet that attaches to the wall in front of the parent’s seat. I was greatly impressed with the many small children who endured the flight and their parents who successfully kept them entertained and soothed. Memories of my flight from Connecticut to California with baby Juliann in tow flashed in my mind. Juli screamed and cried almost the entire time, no matter what I tried to do. No amount of jostling, patting, feeding, or walking the aisles helped.

I don’t remember who began the conversation, but the lady next to me and I soon started to share bits and pieces about ourselves. I learned that she was born, raised, and currently lived in Iraq. She asked me if I had ever visited her country. I told her I hadn’t, withholding that four of my boys had served in the Iraqi war to bring down Saddam Hussein. As a child, she descended from a very large family, then she birthed an equally large family of their own. Inspired by my interest, she began sharing family photos of, her children, grandchildren and friends telling me their names and who they were. Clearly, a great deal of love circulated among this family; this woman was loved and gave love in turn.

I learned that she was an English teacher in Iraq. Which surprised me, but taking in account our ability to converse and understand each other, I came to respect. When, she came across a photo of her husband who she told me had passed away a few years ago, she became grief stricken and pointed to Jeff. Immediately I was taken with how much Jeff looked like the man. And in that moment understood why sitting by Jeff distraught her. She had loved and still loved her husband. I believe there was a cultural issue too. As a widowed woman she felt it was improper sitting between a married couple. In this understanding she and I shared a quiet moment.   

Dinner was served. The airline took care to cater to my gluten free needs. After the dinnerware was cleared away and our tables were stowed, we each again, settled into quiet place. My new friend shared with me a piece of gum. She had set the large bag she was clinging to on top on her suitcase while we ate. Fetching it she pulled from its contents a small case. Inside the case I saw insulin injection needles. I watched as she injected three shots into her belly and one into her thigh. I could tell that the injection in her thigh hurt, and my heart went out to her.

Immediately I understood the importance of the large bag and why she wanted to keep it close at hand. I too had a carry on containing the many medications that keep my body functioning. I too always carry my medications (and electronics) with me since someone working for the airline in Costa Rica, stole my medications, electronics and jewelry from my checked suitcase, leaving me stranded, which was something this lady couldn’t risk, because her diabetes was too serious!

Since we were in the midst of the holidays, I asked her if she had any celebrations approaching and was, taken by surprise when she told me that she was a believer in Jesus and celebrated Christmas. In fact, not only did her entire family celebrate the birth of Christ, but her surrounding neighborhood did to. My friend, and sister in Christ, told me that she opens her house to her family and neighbors who all congregate together. They feast on a wonderful meal and exchange small gifts.

When we parted ways, Jeff and I later saw her in the airport. She was sitting in a wheelchair with an attendant pushing her to her connective gate for her flight home to Iraq.

As I write this, I am sitting in a lovely lounge in Qatar airport. The lounge is clean, bathrooms too. The employees are once again beautiful people, sharply dressed and extremely attentive. Qatar airport is impressive! Large, beautifully decorated for the holidays. The lounge I’m in is the perfect place to retreat for a layover. In an hour, Jeff and I board another Qatar plane for our flight to Hanoi, Vietnam.